The Repentance - 9:23 O you who believe, do not take your parents and your brothers as friends if they prefer disbelief to faith. Whoever takes them as friends, they are wrongdoers.
What should be the attitude of the believers towards the families of unbelievers?
The Woman Who Is Examined/60:4 "There is a good example for you in Abraham and those who were with him. Those who were with him said to their people, "We are far from you and those whom you serve besides Allah. We do not know you. There is eternal enmity and hatred between us and you until you believe in Allah ALONE. Except that Abraham´s words to his father, "I will pray for your forgiveness, but I cannot protect you against anything from Allah"(as a mistake). "Our Lord, to You we trust, to You we turn, and to You we shall return."
The Pleading Woman/58:22 You will not see a people who believe in Allah and His messenger and the Last Day taking as friends those who oppose Allah and His messenger. Even if they are their own mothers and fathers and children and sons and sons and brothers and relatives. He has written faith in their hearts and supported them with a revelation from Himself. He will admit them into Gardens in which rivers flow, where they will abide forever. Allah is pleased with them and they are pleased with Him. They are the party of Allah. Surely, the party of Allah will win.
Luqman/31:14 We admonished man about his parents, and his mother carries him with great difficulty. His weaning takes place in two years. You should thank Me and your parents. To Me is the return.
Luqman/31:15 And if they contend with you that you should associate with Me something of which you have no knowledge, do not follow either of them. But you should treat them well in this world. Follow the way of those who turn to me. To Me is your return in the end, and I will inform you of all that you do.
The Repentance/9:16 Do you think that you will be left until Allah knows and distinguishes between those among you who strive hard for Him and those who take none as close friends except Allah and His Messenger and the believers? Allah is All-Knowing of what you do.
The Repentance/9:23 O you who believe, do not take your parents and your brothers as friends if they prefer disbelief to faith. Whoever takes them as friends, they are wrongdoers.
The Repentance/9:24 "Say: "If your parents, your children, your brothers and sisters, your wives, your families, the money you earn, the business you fear may go bad, and the houses you enjoy are dearer to you than Allah and His Messenger and striving in His Way, then wait until Allah brings His Command."Allah does not guide the people who have gone astray."
The Repentance/9:113 Neither the Messenger nor the believers, even if they are relatives, can ask forgiveness for those who associate partners after it has become clear to them that they are the people of Hell.
Prophet Hud/11:45 "Noah called out to his Lord: "O my Lord, my son is of my family, and Your promise is true, and You are the best of judges."
Prophet Hud/11:46 "He said: "O Noah, he cannot be of your family. It is not virtuous for you to ask me for what you do not know. I advise you not to be among the ignorant."
The Night Journey/17:23 "Your Lord has commanded you to serve Him alone and to be kind to your parents. If one or both of them grow old with you, do not even say to them "Ouf"and do not rebuke them. Speak to them in a good manner"
The Night Journey/17:24 "Have mercy on them and stretch out to them the wings of humility and say, "My Lord, have pity on them as they raised me when I was young."
The Night Journey/17:25 Your Lord knows very well what is in you. If you behave righteously, surely He is Forgiving to those who repent
The Night Journey/17:26 Give to relatives their due. And to the needy and the traveler. But do not extravagantly
The Night Journey/17:26 Give to relatives their due. And to the needy and the traveler. But do not extravagantly
The Night Journey/17:27 Surely those who are extravagant are the friends of the devils, and the devil is ungrateful to his Lord
The Night Journey/17:28 If you have to turn away from them in order to obtain a mercy from your Lord which you hope for, speak a soft word to them.
Mary/19:41 Remember Abraham in the Book; he was a prophet, a truthful one.
Mary/19:42 "He said to his father, "My father, why do you serve that which does not hear or see or benefit you?"
Mary/19:43 My father, a knowledge has come to me which has not come to you. Follow me and I will guide you to a straight path.
Mary/19:44 My father, do not serve Satan. Satan has opposed the Most Merciful.
Mary/19:45 My father, I fear that you may be punished by the Most Merciful and that you may be a friend of Satan.
Mary/19:46 "(His father said:) "Are you turning away from my gods, Abraham? If you do not stop this, I will stone you, go away from me!"
Mary/19:47 "Peace be upon you,"he said, "I will beg my Lord for your forgiveness; He is most merciful to me."
The Manifestation of Losses/64:14 O you who believe, your wives and children may be your enemies. So beware of them. But if you forgive and are tolerant and forgiving, surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.
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