The Repentance - 9:45
Only those who do not believe in Allah and the Last Day ask your permission. Their hearts are full of doubt. They are floundering in their doubts.
What are the valid excuses for not participating in war?
The Victory/48:16
"Say to the remnant of the Arabs, "You will be called upon against a powerful people. You will fight them until they surrender. If you obey, Allah will give you a good reward. If you turn away, as you turned away before, He will punish you with a painful torment."
The Victory/48:17
There is no hardship for the blind, no hardship for the paralyzed, and no hardship for the sick. Whoever follows Allah and His messenger, He will admit him into Gardens from which rivers flow. And whoever turns away, He will punish him severely.
The Repentance/9:90
Those of the Arabs who fabricated excuses came to you for permission. So those who denied Allah and His messenger sat down. A painful torment will touch the disbelievers.
The Repentance/9:91
There is no condemnation for the weak, the sick and those who have nothing to give for help, provided they are sincerely devoted to Allah and His Messenger. Those who do good will not be condemned. Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.
The Repentance/9:92
"Likewise, those who come to you to give them a ride and you say, "I cannot find a vehicle to give you a ride,"and they turn back with tears in their eyes because of their financial inability."
The Repentance/9:93
Only those who asked you for permission while they were rich are reprehensible. They asked to be with those who stayed behind, and Allah stamped their hearts. Therefore they do not know.